Diary of a Bridezilla: Choice stress

Diary of a Bridezilla: Choice stress

17 November 2011

Bruid met keuzestress - dilemmasWeddingplanner Amsterdam
Credit: Kisses and Confetti

From the moment I said 'yes' it already started; choice stress. Because where on earth would we have to get married, which dress would become mine, for which theme would we go, who should be on our guest list and how should the whole day go. It's great fun getting married, but those choices do not make it very easy for me as an eternal doubter.

As you could read earlier, it started with the wedding dress and after that I could not come to our dream location. Fortunately, these two choices have now (almost) been made, but now the following dilemmas are occurring again. So we had to decide which photographer or photographers would fix our day, but also what the theme would be, what cards we wanted to send and whether we would like a DJ or a band, because both did not go.

With these dilemmas and the choices that followed, it quickly became apparent that opting for one means that the other can not. Very logical of course, because you can not choose everything and besides that we do not have the budget for that, but oh oh oh I find that tricky now and then. Fortunately, I do not have to make all the choices at once and we still have some time for some. Even better is that we have wedding planner Vivian, because occasionally it is very nice that she knows what works, what suits us and how it should be done. With her tips I am usually reassured for a while, but never for long, because before I know it, the next dilemma is already coming.

Note: this blog is written by Bride Rianne in November 2011

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