Wedding vows: I believe, I promise, I take you

I, Sabinimini, accept you, McD, as my legal husband. With all my heart and soul. From my crown to my toes. I believe in us, I promise to us. I, Sabinimini, accept you, McD, as my legal husband. In wealth and in poverty. In sickness and health. From here to the stars and back, with […]

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Bride to be: I promise & I believe

Maybe a rather strange title for a bride-to-be. The ONE does not exist. I do not believe in 1 perfect love for everyone. I do not believe in unconditional love between partners (but between parent and child). There are conditions to love. Everyone has their limits. I do not believe in equal relationships where there […]

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Friends, in love, engaged, on our way to … marry

Writing this second column is hard for me. Since I made a promise to our ‘Bruidsmeisje’ or else I would not write it. Why, I ask myself, do I see this writing so badly? It is the subject that I have hiccups against . Writing about the wedding, the preparations, the proposal, the target group […]

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From bridesmaid to bride

My first experience with “marriage” was as a bridesmaid. My aunt Annelies, my mother’s sister, got married to Hans. We write June 20th 1980. I was four years old. What particularly helps me with that wedding is the dress with lace and edges that I got (very modern for that time) but above all, I […]

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